Written by a Guy

Girls need to realize this .

We guys don’t care if you talk to other guys .
We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys .
But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up andtackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off .
It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging
the fact that we’re still there .

We don’t care if a guy calls or TEXTS you .
but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned .
Nothing is that important at 2am .

Also, when we tell you you’re pretty / beautiful/ gorgeous / cute / stunning,
we freaking mean it .
Don’t tell us we’re wrong.
We’ll stop trying to convince you .

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence .
Yeah, you can quote me .

Don’t be mad when we hold the door open .
Take Advantage of the mood im in .

Let us pay for you!
don’t ‘feel bad’
We enjoy doing it .
It’s expected .
Smile and say ‘thank you’ .

Kiss us when no one’s watching .
If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed .

You don’t have to get dressed up for us .
If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to
wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own .
We like you for who you are and not what you are .
Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s .
or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up .

Don’t take everything we say seriously .
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it .

Don’t get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don’t talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us .
It’s boring, and we don’t care. You have girlfriends for that .

Whatever happened to the word ‘handsome’/’beautiful’
i’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me
with ‘Hey handsome!’ instead of
‘Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy’ or whatever else you can think of .
On the other hand im not sayin’ I woulndnt like it ether ;)

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren’t being treated right by a guy,
dont wait for him to change!!!!!
Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population & find someone who will treat you with utter respect .

Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest .
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes .
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel .
Someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes and
say ‘i love you’ ..and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance.

Guys like this if you agree.
Girls like this if you think it’s cute.

Every Guy who isn’t a jerk will agree with this,
so we hope that all the girls that read this will like this.

Big Hug & Kisses

Raisa

Love Poetry

I don’t love you as if you were a rose of salt, topaz,
or arrow of carnations that propagate fire:
I love you as one loves certain obscure things,
secretly, between the shadow and the soul.
I love you as the plant that doesn’t bloom but carries
the light of those flowers, hidden, within itself,
and thanks to your love the tight aroma that arose
from the earth lives dimly in my body.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where,
I love you directly without problems or pride:
I love you like this because I don’t know any other way to love,
except in this form in which I am not nor are you,
so close that your hand upon my chest is mine,
so close that your eyes close with my dreams.

Kurang Disiplin

Hello

Sudah lama ya ga banyak ngebacot disini. Oh ya, gue juga sudah jarang nge post. tergantung mood dan kadang juga bingung mau nge post apa. gue ga tau kenapa gue susah bgt buat dispilin. ya dulu sering bgt terlambat datang ke sekolah. but now, sudah ga pernah sering terlambat. dan tadi gue baru aja ngulangin kesalahan gue dan gue terlambat lagi. gue bangun sekitar jam 6 karena dibangunin pacar haha. dan gue masih ngantuk dan ga balas sms pacar gue. eh langsung tidur lagi. dasar memang mata gue, kuat bgt buat tidur. sekaligus kuat buat begadang.

Ayah gue teriak-teriak bangunin gue. gue langsung liat jam beker pemberian pacar gue (beneran ga penting). gue langsung melek ngeliat jam. gue langsung cepat-cepat nyari handuk terus mandinya. ya taulah, mandinya cepat bgt. tapi gue emang sempattin buat sikat gigi. soalnya kan bisa2 berabe deh temen-temen disekolah gue pingsan bau aroma mulut gue haha. dan ga lupa juga buat pake sabun dan basahin kepala. biar gue ga ngantuk lagi. terus kalo ga pake sabun bisa-bisa teman-teman gue koma 2 tahun cium aroma badan gue yang kayak bau bangkai.

Gue cepat-cepat pake seragam, dandan, terus kenapa gue lupa taruh jilbab gue dimana. gue nyari lagi sampai gue panik kayak org gila. setelah itu gue pake sepatu, gue marah-marah ke ortu minta cepat dianterin ke sekolah. terus ayah gue bilang salah sendiri malah tidur lagi. yaudah gue sih pasrah aja, dan gue takut bgt terlambat. takutnya entar pasti dihukum dan poin gue banyak cuman gara-gara terlambat. kan itu miris bgt. gue rasanya mau garuk-garuk tanah disaat ayah gue masih sempat-sempatnya nge lap mobil. gue nahan nangis, entah hukuman apa yg bakal diberikan guru ke gue.

Diperjalanan menuju sekolah, gue sudah dag dig dug. gimana ya tar disekolah. apa gue bakal disate, dipanggang. ah sama aja deng. terus waktu sampai disekolah gue ke lobby ketemu guru piket terus gue disuruh tarus tas didekat pintu. dan gue disuruh nyapu depan perpus sama depan ruang osis. capek? ga capek sih. cuman malu. masa pake acara difoto segala sama bu dian. mungkin mau dipasang di mading kali ya. terus text captionnya muka2 sering terlambat. kan nyesek bgt kalo dipajang.

Dan sehabis dihukum, gue balik ke lobby sekolah. gue ambil tas, dan gue ngeliat tas gue diperiksa sama guru piket. dan untung bgt ga bawa hp. gue emng sudah tau terlambat dan ga bakal bawa hp. pasti di lobby diperiksa lalu disita. setelah itu gue diminta surat terlambat gitu deh. warna kuning gitu. terus gue jalan menuju kelas gue. tiba-tiba gue ketemu handoko. dia bilang gue datang pagi-pagi bgt. emang kyknya ngejek deh dia. terus habis itu gue sampai dikelas gue. dan ada pak silam guru kesenian gue ngajar. untung pak silam lagi nulis di papan tulis, jadi gue masuk dengan santainya. terus teman-teman gue disekolah. eno, ratna, ulvi dan ovin ngejek2 gue. gue sih ya cuek amat haha.

Dan gue mengakui, gue kurang disiplin. gue suka masih terlambat dan ga tepat waktu. membuang-membung waktu dan ga bisa membagi waktu. gue janji ga bakal terlambat lagi. karena gue ga mau nambah poin. kan bisa-bisa gue di DO. ya Allah gamau bgt. disiplin itu penting. gue harus inget itu. that's all i can say. see ya later :)

Big Hug & Kisses 

Raisa

Desprate

You know that feeling?

When you're just waiting.

Waiting to get home, into your room,

close the door, fall into bed,

and just let everything out that you kept in all day.

That feeling of both relief and despration.
Nothing is wrong.
But nothing is right either. 
And you're tired.
Tired of everything, tired of anything.
And you just want someone to be there
And tell you it's okay.
But no one's going to be there.
And you know have to be strong
For youself, because no one can fix you.
But you're tired of waiting.
Tired of having to be the one fix yourself and everyone else.
Tired of being strong.
And for once, you just want it to be easy.
To be simple. To be helped. To be saved.
But you know you won't be.
But you're still hoping.
And you're still wishing.
And you're still staying strong and fighting. 
With tears in your eyes.
You're fighting.

Big Hug & Kisses

Raisa